Showing posts with label my change. Show all posts
Showing posts with label my change. Show all posts
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Solve Your Problem: Chuck It

The past few weeks, I've been on the front lines in meetings and I think I might have come close to death more than once. Have you read the book, Death By Meeting by Patrick Lencioni? It's about how to have, hold, and lead effective meetings (as you could probably infer from the title).

Never mind the meeting to solve things, I propose a new way of solving problems. If it's outdated by a double digit number of years, chuck it.

“Over the coming decades, an accelerating pace of change will test the resilience of every society, organization and individual. Luckily, perturbations create opportunities as well as challenges. But the balance of promise and peril confronting any particular organization will depend on its capacity for adaptation. Hence the most important question for any company is this: Are we changing as fast as the world around us?” -Gary Hamel


There are times that I think an organization does things because it makes the people in the organization 'feel' better but not because it's the best thing to do. It's easy to get stuck solving a symptom rather than mending the looming larger issue. If we're still working on a grizzled issue, chances are it's actually time to toss it and re ask the question to identify the new solution. Give way for a fresh perspective.

I'm not sure how many issues this is applicable to in your scenario but I can think of a few in my own life. I'm wasting time trying to solve an issue only to realize that world is changing faster than I am.


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The Fastest Days of 2010

The fastest two days of this year flew by. I was caught in a weird time warp where I was moving as fast as I could to get to the Summit... and then like at&t's service, drop. The Summit was over. Eight months of preparing came down to 2 days of fast paced setting up, checking details, and then tearing down. It was like preparing for a oversized birthday party but never eating cake.

Like a cake-less balloon-less birthday party, I'm deflated. But instead of moping along all stretched out and shrively, I'm going to actively pursue what gives me life.

At the Summit, Christine Caine said, "Hope is a leader's oxygen." I'm not sure if that's the oxygen I'm looking for but it's a good start. I'll start with hope.

I have hope that whatever comes my way, I can get through it. I have hope that people are intrinsically good (even though there might be some tough ones). I have hope that God has placed the 'right' people in my life to help me get through awkward and difficult times.

What is your oxygen?
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Make the Yellow Brighter





I can't remember the company but I remember the line from the commercial-


We don't make post-it notes; we just make the yellow brighter.

I've been thinking about this in the context of my job but I think it has implications beyond 9-5. Most of the issues, situations, contexts, and moments that I experience, I don't create. I'm a fixer, amplifier, lighter, thinker, and solution finder but not a creator.

I wish I were a creator- it sounds like less of a tool, but in the middle of who I am is someone who likes the background. I like to take what's there and help it grow.

In the relationships that I have, the good ones and (begrudgingly) the tough ones, I want to make things brighter- take what's there and build it. If I'm (still begrudgingly) honest, I wonder if I'm actually living that out- or just lighting a flashlight when I need the sun.

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Searching for Significance


Forget the ladder. Keep the six-figure salary. What I’m searching for these days is significance. I want to be a part of something that is bigger than what I could ever do alone. Engage me. I’ll be a loyal part of the team. Build into me. I will deliver. I won’t let you down.


I just ask one thing- don’t break me with pseudo leadership practices. I’m too fragile and tired. I only have energy for health.


Give me a chance. I won’t walk on you or take credit for your work. I’ll be one of the best decisions you make.


I know that we can do way more together than alone. Alone doesn’t work for me. Let me on a team with the right vital signs and the sleeping side of me will show up. Promise.

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Turning Point


Tonight marks the turning point. Long hours and lack of boundaries have filled personal time and encourage me to become the person I don't want to be. The path I'm on equals the path to self depletion. A busy season has stretched into busy months. I. can't. keep. up.

The war stories of those who have gone before me serve as warning signs: dead end ahead. I feel the thinness of the raw emotion that sits just below the surface waiting to tear open and burst into an ugly mess.

It took a hard week, a few slaps in the face, some good friends, and gentle nudges (some not so gentle) to remind me life is bigger than work. So like any problem I solve, I'll envision where I want to go, define where I am, and figure out how to get there. Who I am is okay and I don't have to prove that to anyone, even myself.
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